Be in Love Again

Are We the Change Generation?

Reading about the oldest woman who recently died at the age of 134 reminds me that I may not be middle age yet. How fun is that? We know it is true that people are living longer, but are we ready for it? If we live to an age beyond our wildest dreams, what kind of responsibility comes with that?

I have a rescue horse that I took in years ago, thinking he would die any day...he was 29-years-old and not in the best of health when we rescued him. Now our precious Willy has reached the ripe old age of 38 and is a very happy and healthy horse. Apparently, not only people are living longer. Again, let's think about what that might mean for the future. (Willy pictured here with my husband Dave).

Times are changing in more ways than just living a longer life. Every day I hear someone remark, the veils between the world of the seen and the world of the unseen are thinning. We are becoming more intuitive. Many people are activity working with their guides and angels. How will this impact our lives?

I seem to have many more questions in this article than I have answers. But I believe these are the kinds of questions we need to start asking ourselves, as we begin to leave 2012, the great year of change.

Are we being called to be the healthiest generation, the longest living generation and the most intuitive generation? If so, what do we need to do right now to step up to this challenge?

I believe we need to start being more conscious in all our decisions. Many people believe in the collective consciousness and that every decision we make impacts the whole.

With a belief such as this, everything we do is important. How we take care of ourselves. How we treat others and how we honor this earth. Perhaps our responsibility is simply to make conscious choices that benefit the ALL!

I would love to hear your thoughts on this topic. Please comment!

 

By Judith Geiger

Be in Love Again Coach

 

5 Easy Ways to Uplift Your Spirit ~ Week 2

 

Last week we talked about how you can inspire yourself and uplift your life using your quote jar.

I hope some of you tried it. If you are like most, you probably thought it
was a good idea. Then you filed the idea away in your brain to do later.

Although easy it did have several steps. I know you are busy so today we will look at a way
to uplift your spirit that only takes a few moments. This is one of my favorites!

 

Second way to uplift and inspire your life

Bookshelf

• Bring to mind something you are concerned about. It can be in the form of a question or
  simply a thought about what you would like to have different in your life.
• Approach a shelf of books (at home, in a library or bookstore).
• Bring to mind your concern and set a mental intention to get an answer that will uplift and
  inspire you.
• Choose your book with your intuition.
• Open the book you chose to a random page and let your eyes run down the page until you feel compelled to stop. Read the paragraph or sentence that feels right.
• Take time to let the words sink in. Was there a message for you? If so, you might want to journal your thoughts and see if more ideas surface.

I used this exercise just now with this thought in mind: “How can I better serve my coaching
clients?”

I chose the book titled Find Your Courage by Margie Warrell. The section I read was from page 176 “When you find yourself thinking “It’s just impossible to do z,” start to say “I know there is a way to
do z. I just have not found it yet. But I will….

The message for me here is to hold the vision for my clients that they can do z, even when they can’t see it yet! But I already do that, so what might the deeper message be? Perhaps it is to know that I can also do z!

By
Judith Geiger

Be in Love Again Coach

3 Ways God Winks

Synchronicity is a word most people are familiar with. It is an event that feels guided by a force bigger than us. If you ask any of my coaching clients what synchronicity is, most likely they will say, “They are God Winks.” This is because I often tell my clients about a little book called, When GOD Winks: How the Power of Coincidence Guides Your Life by Squire D. Rushnell. Many of my clients read Squire’s book to help them see what is not always obvious.

How many times have you been caught off guard where you have to take a step back and with jaw open you exclaim, “How could they have known? Who told them about my life?” Or “I was just talking about you yesterday and here you are!” God Winks all. When there is a need for us to be or do something and we are clueless… that is often when a God Wink will show up. 

“Synchronistic events offer us perceptions that may be useful in our psychological and spiritual growth and may reveal to us, through intuitive knowledge, that our lives have meaning.” Jean Shinoda Bolen, MD, The Tao of Psychology

 

3 ways to notice your God Winks (Your Miracles)

 

• You know it is a God Wink when you get a similar message two or more times. An example from my life today would be I came across a new book about mind management, another way to say Law of Attraction. Early this morning I opened a book at random to read a little and landed on the page from Conversations with God by Neale Donald Walsch where they were dialoging about some of the laws of the universe. In essence the Law of Attraction. I know that I am being called to pay attention to this message. Not sure why yet.???
• It is a God Wink when something happens clearly out of the blue. An example would be if you were looking for a new job in sales. For weeks you pounded the pavement in NYC and could not find work. Then your friend calls to tell you about his new neighbor, Frank, who he just had dinner with. Frank is the head of hiring for Macy’s so your friend told him about you. Tomorrow you have a job interview. This might seem like a pie in sky example, yet it happens every day to someone, why not you?
• People and circumstances are destined. There are certain people we are destined to meet for a wide variety of reasons. We meet and life goes on as normal only later to discover how important and needed this person (or circumstance) is in your life. An example I have is about a circumstance in my life from 35 years ago. There was a little red house that I wanted to buy in the worst way. I was heartbroken when circumstances turned out otherwise. Only to discover that once I bought the second house, in another town, I was right across the street from a business I would one day own. It never would have happened if I was the first, not the second person, to put in a purchase offer on the red house in a matter of hours. A year later the new owners called and asked if I still wanted to buy the red house because it was for sale again. By then I was happily settled into my new home and working across the street.

God Winks happen big and small to all of us…you simply need to pay attention and act on them!

By Judith Geiger 

Be in Love Again Coach

See Squire Russell’s Video on God Winks

 

  

 

 

 

My Journey into Oracle Card Reading

Last autumn, when the trees in my yard had already turned their majestic colors of red and orange, I had the sense that my life was also changing. Not in any big dramatic way, but I noticed knew opportunities I felt guided to explore. One of them was Denise Linn’s new class, Soul Coaching® Oracle Card Certification. I wasn’t sure why I felt almost compelled to take her class other than the fact that I had always loved collecting decks of oracle cards. Angel cards being among my favorites. In fact I drew a card for myself almost daily. It was part of my morning spiritual routine. I would ask a question, draw a card for insight, journal, meditate and pray. Not always in that order and often not as routine I was would have liked, but when I did indulge myself in this practice, I found it not only soothing, but I had many ah-ha moments.

Perhaps that is why I wanted to take the oracle card course. My cards had already given me so much pleasure; I couldn’t help but wonder what else I could learn about card reading. I had often been told I was very intuitive, so I decided to sign up and see what would happen. At that time I had no intention of reading cards for others. That was about 5 months ago, today I cannot image my life and my coaching business without the addition of oracle cards.

Let me explain! Shortly after learning all Denise had to teach us about Soul Coaching® Oracle Cards we were told we needed to complete 88 card readings in order to get certified.  At first I thought, “Yikes, how can I do that many readings?”  Well it didn’t take very long before it became such a passion of mine that 88 readings seemed to fly by! “Why was I so passionate” you might ask? It was simply because every reading I gave brought not only wonderful insights for my clients, but also for me. The more I read for others the deeper I connected to the cards. My theme for this this year 2012 is trust and did this ever show up in a big way when I was reading the cards recently!

I was conducting a reading by email that I had scheduled to do at a very early hour. I had not been up for very long when I began to prepare for the reading around 6am. I connected to my cards, cleared the space, lit a candle, said a prayer, etc. and I began to shuffle the cards. I saw her question for the reading and her name in the open note book in front of me. I consciously drew the first card. Then I did something I almost never do and now will never do again. I looked at the card and at her question and thought, “I must still be groggy, because this simply cannot be the correct card for this reading.”  I then put the card back and reshuffled, I very carefully drew another card out of the deck of 52 cards.

My mouth flew open as I saw it was the exact same card as before. I was being told in no uncertain terms that I had not only drawn the correct card the first time, but that I could not make a mistake drawing the cards, because I was being divinely guided. My theme for the year, trust, was showing up big time.  Apparently, I needed to trust more than I was. 

But wait, it gets even more astounding. I told the woman who I was doing the reading for…about my experience of thinking I had drawn the wrong card. She shared with me exactly how correct the card was. She had posted the very same word that was on the card in the middle of her vision board months before. Once again my mouth flew open and all I could do was silently thank the universe for such a wonderful validation. No matter what card appears in my readings now, I always trust it is not only the correct card for my client, but that there will be a much deeper meanings for my client than what I see on the surface. They are the best judges of what is and what is not important in their lives. I conduct my card readings very much like my coaching sessions. I assist my clients to connect the dots of their lives, so they can easily create a life they love.

Of course all of my coaching clients do not resonate with card readings, just as some do not like personality assessments or workbooks. All my clients are unique so I customize all my coaching accordingly.

 

By Judith Geiger

Be in Love Again Coach

Using Intuition as Your Guide

You have within you an inner guidance system that will never let you down. As Caroline Myss says, “you are all so intuitive you are ready to implode.” I had heard words like this for so many years. I have read books on intuition, given speeches on how to be intuitive, even had profound personal experiences around intuition, yet I had a block to trusting my daily intuition until recently.

I have always used my intuition with my coaching clients. I get symbols, impressions or metaphors that I share with them while in a session and they have always found them insightful and forward moving. Yet, for some unknown reason I was unable to consciously incorporate it into my own life.

Something shifted in me at a recent seminar in Maine with Dr. Mona Lisa Schultz. I won’t tell you how she conducted her intuitive teaching because I hope you get a chance to experience her training for yourself one day. I will just say on Saturday morning I was making excuses why I was not as intuitive as the many learned members of her audience and by the time I left Sunday evening I knew without a doubt that I was so intuitive… I really was ready to implode.

What will I do with my shift in consciousnesses and why am I writing to you about it? The reason I am telling you about my experience is similar to when I quit smoking. I kept shouting to all who would listen 30 years ago, “this is so wonderful …give it a try! I can breathe clearly now!!!” Today I want to shout, “this is so wonderful …give it a try! I can see clearly now!!!”  

Alright, for you it may not be seeing. It might be hearing. There are at least 5 ways to tap into your intuition. Clairvoyance means clear seeing. This is for the highly visual person. Clairaudience means clear hearing. For me it is not like voices but more of a thought or word that pops into my mind. Clairsentience means clear feeling. This one is easy to spot. How many times have you said, “I felt in my gut that wasn’t right?” Clairalience means clear smelling. Have you ever walked into a room and smelled flowers when none were around? Clairgustance means clear tasting. You are able to taste things that remind you of someone when no food is in sight?

We use all of our senses when we tap into our intuition, yet you will probably have one sense that is the strongest. Take some time to notice which sense you use and trust the most. TRUST is the key word. If you don’t allow your intuition to grow, then sadly it won’t!

You can log your knowing in a journal and check your accuracy when able. Log in your journal who is calling before you answer the phone. Which friend is pregnant but hasn’t told anyone yet? Is the man I am having dinner with tonight a good fit for me? (One word of caution when using your intuition to discern a new partner, make sure it is your intuition speaking and not your fear). Keep playing until you are able to use your intuition to guide your life.

 

By Judith Geiger

Be in Love Again Coach

 

 

Mother's Intuition

A mother’s intuition is only one kind of intuition but seems to be the easiest to access. I believe it has to do with the bond that every mother has with her children. Even if they are estranged now, at the moment of birth a special sacred bond was formed.  

I had a very profound experience myself with mother’s intuition a few years ago. Reading in bed, with my husband at my side, my eyes became heavy so I turned off my lamp to go to sleep. My husband continued to read and in just a few minutes my eyes flew open. My husband and I argue this next point. He says I was asleep (in alpha stage) and I say, "No, I was awake." Either way I sat bolt upright and said, “One of my girls is going to be in an accident. I cannot tell which one but one of them will be in an accident.”  My husband patted my arm and said to go back to sleep. There really was nothing else I could do. I couldn’t call them at their homes and tell them this. After all, what good would it do? It would only scare them and put negative thoughts into their mind so I decided to dismiss it. After much tossing and turning I was able to finally fall back to sleep.

The next morning I only gave it a passing thought and went to work as usual. About ten o’clock that morning the phone rang. It was my daughter’s horse trainer saying, “Lora took a bad fall going over a triple jump with her horse and I need you to take her to the hospital. She refuses an ambulance.”  I rushed to her side, a half hour drive, and as I walked out to the riding ring where she was sitting, these words rushed out of my mouth without thought , “I knew you were going to be in an accident but I thought it was going to be in a car.”

Lora’s trainer turned to me and said, “You knew this would happen?” I said again, “I knew my child was going to be an accident but I thought it would be with a car.” She looked at me and said, “Oh yes, mother’s intuition. It is strong.” My daughter, Lora, was hurt pretty badly but made a complete recovery in a couple of weeks.

This is the experience that made me sit up and take notice as they say! I started paying closer attention to how often I make conscious and unconscious choices based on my intuition and it was often. Shortly after that a friend of mine asked me how I had decided on a certain thing (something we were working on) and without hesitation I said, “By using my intuition as I always do.” This comment actually surprised me. Not that I didn’t realize it on a certain level but to pronounce it so quickly and strongly made me take notice once again.  This led me to the study of intuition and how we are all blessed with it. It is not for a select few but something we can all tap into.  

My invitation to you is to start paying attention to when you use your own intuition. How is it useful in your every day life? Did you even realize that you were intuitive?  

If this subject interests you then please join me this fall for my teleclass on “How to Use Intuition in Business.” Contact Coach Judith for more information. Call 315.497.3059 or email.

By Judith Geiger

Be in Love Again Coach