Be in Love Again

Attract Abundance with Clutter Clearing

What does clutter clearing mean? So many times you hear these words and think about your dreaded messy garage or closet.You close your eyes and imagine it clean and you smile for a moment, then your daydream quickly becomes a nightmare when you realize the work it will take to accomplish it. Would it help to know that every time you do a real clutter clearing you are actually inviting more abundance into your life? Really!  If you are ready to change your life and create new opportunities, then the best place to start is to declutter. Let me explain.

It is a proven fact that everything is energy. In order to bring what you desire into your life (new energy) it is necessary to let go of the old.  This means it is time to declutter your life. You do this in several ways. The most obvious is to declutter your home and office. Also, it is great to declutter your car, your email inbox, even your calendar (where are you over booked and weighed down?). The more you are able to let go of the lighter you will feel. This is what creates that space for abundance to start flowing in!

I know an author who once said, “I know every time I am ready to write a new book, because I will get inspired to do a complete clutter clearing. And I do!” Her books are awesome, because she creates space for them to come in.

So where to begin? I always tell my clients to start small. If you clean out one small drawer completely, then stop and reward yourself by doing something else for a while, you will have begun.  Then return to that drawer and open it. Look inside and take a moment to connect with what it feels like to have it cleaned out and neat. Let this inspire you to do the next small thing. Before you know it you will have the whole family out in the garage for a cleaning party. Make it fun by playing some music and dancing, after you have cleared enough room in the middle of the floor.

Don’t let this happen to you, don’t get caught up in the mindset of I might need it someday. If you have not used it in six months or love it dearly, let it go. Sell it or give it to charity for that extra good feeling. By the time you are done you will be feeling over the top good and remember that is also what attracts abundance, feeling good!

Consider for a moment if you are going through a divorce or major breakup, simply keeping his or her things around (for whatever reason) keeps you stuck where you are. If you are ready to move on with your life then let that stuff go.

If you are still procrastinating and unable to make the decisions about what to keep and what to let go of, then you can do the box system. Get three large boxes and on the first one mark Keep, the next Give Away and the last Undecided. You can later file or find a new best place for the keep box items. Donate or sell the items in the second box and that third box,  the one you are still agonizing over, if you have not missed it in a month, let it go!

Just keep in mind if you don’t love it or use it let it go!

Still can't seem to get started? Hire a coach who will help you stay motivated and get the job done with ease.

 

 

By Judith Geiger

Be in Love Again Coach

 

Allow the Universe to Help

Are you trying to push on a closed door that won’t open?

Let me explain what I mean. There have been a number of times in my life and in the lives of my clients that we want something to happen so badly, that we just keep trying and trying and trying to make “IT” happen… to no avail. It really makes no difference what the IT is. It can be finding your ideal partner, starting your new business, or even loving yourself. Sometimes it feels the harder you try the faster your objective slips away!

Let’s take a look at what is going on when the doors won’t open. It may be that you have actually set yourself up to fail because of your own expectations.  You do this when you have tunnel vision. The objective in your mind looks a certain way and you are determined to make your way work. When it does not materialize… what alternatives do you have? Work harder and harder or just give up completely are the first two things that often occur to you.

I know because I have been there many times myself. My patterns of work harder to make it happen stem from my childhood. My grandparents came to this country from Poland. They were my number one role model. Both worked about 18 hours a day or more and became early entrepreneurs by owning their own bakery. They did manage to make it work for them but only through struggle, sacrifice, and harder work than most of us could imagine.  I saw very little joy in their lives.

If you have something you are trying to make happen in your life and pushing harder and harder on the door does not open it, then I would like to offer you another possibility. One that is filled with joy!

What if God, the Universe…whatever you call your higher power had even bigger and grander opportunities waiting for you, but you could not see it because you are so focused on making what you want to have happen…happen? I cannot tell you how dramatic the change can be when you realize that the door is not locked shut…it simply opens in…if you will only allow it to.

Allowing is the big key. Whenever you are pushing hard and the door won’t open, look to see if it opens in. You can do this by looking for God Winks (synchronicity). You know, those opportunities that seem to just appear.  They may have been there all the time, only your tunnel vision prevented you from seeing them. You probably know the old saying, “let go and let God.” That is one thing I need to remind myself of often.

Take action, do all you can do and then let go and allow the universe to do its job! I often find taking a time out from the objective will allow miracles to occur. Take a short vacation, go fishing, find a meditation class or practice yoga…all will allow your life to flow. These are just some examples, do whatever it is that assists you to shift your perspective and let your life to simply unfold.

If you have trouble with allowing you may want to work with a coach to assist you in the process. I offer free 30-minute consultations and you can sign up here. Let’s begin today creating the life you want to live!

“Through allowing, you become what you are; vast, spacious. You become whole. You are not a fragment anymore, which is how the ego perceives itself. Your true nature emerges, which is one with the nature of God.”

Eckhart Tolle

By Judith Geiger

Be in Love Again Coach

 

What is Your Name?

Does your name have a successful vibration?

I was researching material for my Toastmasters speech about names recently, when I found the most amazing web site: http://www.kabalarians.com/. On this site they explain how your name and the way it is spelled creates a vibration that can add or detract from the success in your life.

Who knew? I thought we simply used the name our parents gave us until we married and then we took our husband’s surname name, if we chose to. After spending a little time at this site and having my own name analyzed for its success factors, I realized that numerology and astrology play a part in this kabalarian philosophy. Since I love both I decided to look a bit further and discovered this makes a lot of sense.

Once my speech was completed at Toastmasters, a man in the audience who was from India explained to me how each letter of our name has a different vibration. He explained we use the vibration of a name when we refer to God. All words for God (from various religions) have the AHHHH sound such as; Ala, Krishna, God, etc.

This really made me sit up at take notice. If we are able to heal through sound vibration why is not possible to be a success through a sound vibration in your name? After all, our very thoughts are a vibration and we know how our thoughts guide our lives. What we think about is what we attract.

Looking at my own name report I noticed that I have been much more successful and happy since my surname name changed after marrying my second husband and choosing to use my given name Judith rather than my nickname Judy.

If you are interested you can get a free report for your name at the web site.  When I did mine I also did a free telephone interview with a lovely woman who did not pressure me to buy anything. Actually, my current name is a pretty good vibration.

“All of these are names given me by other people, but not names I would have given myself.  My name is not mine, it's theirs.  It's a series of costumes put on my life by other people.”

Robert Fulghum (1937 -)

 By Judith Geiger

Be in Love Again Coach